The Little Lights of Lantern Hollow

Find a story for tonight · Hiding a feeling

Name your own feelings out loud first. That is how a child learns there are more words than “fine”.

Early-years educators label emotions, including characters’ emotions, so children learn names for a range of feelings, then prompt children to label their own. In Sunny’s Feelings Faces, Sunny’s “I’m fine!” puffs up a little grey cloud until she says the true word.

The Little Light who knows this feeling: Sunny.

Try this tonight

  1. Make each face together: happy, sad, mad, scared (a gentle one), surprised, calm.
  2. Take turns choosing the face.
  3. You go first: “I feel tired.” “I feel happy you’re home.”
  4. Then ask, “How do you feel right now?” Any answer is a good answer.
  5. If it’s a hard feeling, start with “Thank you for telling me.”

Why it works

“Label emotions, including those of characters, to help children learn the names of a range of feelings.” “Prompt children to label their own emotions to help them connect what they are feeling with language.”

Compiled from the episode: six faces to make together (happy, sad, mad, scared, surprised, calm) and one sentence for the child to finish, “I feel…”.

So: Make the six faces together, then finish “I feel…” yourself first, with a real feeling from your day.

If you skip it: A child whose only safe word is “fine” keeps the rest behind it, the way Sunny’s cloud hides her glow.

What the source doesn’t say

The source doesn’t give a number of feelings to teach. Six is how many the episode uses, chosen to be learnable, not a standard.

The book and episode

Sources

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